rooted in your body.
revealing your style.
THE REVELATION.
style consultation+ coaching
Together, let's create a personal style that truly reflects who you are.
Maybe you feel drained when you consider all of the energy you have spent trying to 'look good' or get clear on what pieces you 'should' wear.
You see people who look radiant in their clothes, and you are hit with a pang of bewilderment: how do they do it!? That could never be me. You find your mind flooding with all of the reasons why your body is the barrier to you having great style; your genes/jeans must be the wrong ones.
Perhaps you have that one piece in your closet that you adore, but won't let yourself wear.
Or you feel overwhelmed by the endless clothing options you are presented with - in your closet, in stores or online. Maybe if you could just find one more perfect piece it would all come together.
Maybe if you just got rid of everything you owned and started fresh you'd get it right.
You’ve looked at all of the 'Dress for your Body Type' articles, stayed up at night clicking through style quizzes, and flipped through any style guide or 'Must Haves of the Season' lists that looked remotely interesting, and you still feel lost.
You secretly detest the '10 Classic Pieces Everyone Should Own' declarations and simultaneously think there’s something wrong with you because you don’t want a tan trench coat and you don't like wearing white sneakers.
Or perhaps you’ve invested in gorgeous clothes and are embarrassed to admit that you wear 25% of what you have (and only feel thrilled about 3 items).
I invite you to pause and consider:
what do you actually like to wear?
How do you want to feel in your clothes?
What pieces does your body say 'yes! please! more of that!' to? What pieces does your body wilt at the sight of?
What makes you feel good in your clothes? Like, truly, soul-satisfied heart expanding-ly good?
We're steeped in external messages that tell us what we should wear and how should look.
Which bodies are 'good bodies' and who deserves to feel and look fantastic in their clothes.
Our lack of confidence and clarity gets preyed upon, and we're told that if we only had xy or z piece we'd finally arrive and feel good about how we looked and who we are. So often we believe that there is something wrong with us, something we need to fix or change, in order to have 'good' personal style.
no wonder it's been challenging to curate a style that feels authentic and celebratory of who you are.
I want you to know what it’s like to develop a dynamic and deeply personal style that reflects the multifaceted person that you are.
Choosing outfits intuitively from a place of pleasure and joy instead of obligation or shame.
Enjoying the way your body feels and moves in clothing that you love.
Being able to access more confidence and freedom by leaning into the wisdom within you.
I want you to have time and energy back that you didn’t know you were spending dressing to please someone (your mom? the mean girls from high school? the fashion industrial complex? I’ve been there!) who isn’t you.
i’m Kiri, and I'm so glad you're here.
I support people to connect to their bodies to clarify their style so they can get dressed with more pleasure, ease and joy.
i offer THE REVELATION. an 8-week 1:1 style consultation + coaching journey
this is a holistic, desire-led approach to clarifying your style so you can develop a wardrobe that works for you.
I view exploring and clarifying your style as a wellness practice —intersecting with body, mind, and spirit —and a conduit for self-discovery, pleasure, and transformation.
The clothing we put on every day affects how we feel, how we see ourselves, and how we move through the world.
I honor your body as an amazing and wise ally in this process of style clarification. I take a somatic approach to my work with clients which means that thinking, sensing, feeling, and actions are infused into most of our sessions. I also incorporate guided visualization, meditation, and embodiment practices to uncover old patterns, clear blockages, and stuck energy to help you better tune into your preferences and style desires.
In our work we peel back the false stories society tells us about our bodies to courageously craft our own narratives, defining our style on our own terms, and reclaiming our power in the process.
Cultivating your style, developing a relationship with your body defined by acceptance and loving presence, releasing restrictive messaging you’ve been given throughout your life, and cultivating your style aren’t things that happen overnight or in one session. They take time and intentionality. The commitment to the process allows for transformation and ongoing integration.
in the revelation. you'll receive:
(3) 75-minute one-on-one Zoom calls with me
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ENVISIONING SESSION | We get clear on your lifestyle, and your current wardrobe, and we dive into envisioning how to develop your style.
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(2) EMBODIED CONNECTION SESSIONS | We'll tap into your preferences, your body's signals, and messages about your style, and begin to address internal obstacles you are experiencing in your style exploration.
(2) in-home sessions together
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CLOSET EDIT (4 hours) | l guide you through an edit of your current wardrobe where you'll get clear on what words define your style, how your style is already manifesting in what you wear, and which pieces no longer align with your aesthetic.
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INTEGRATION SESSION (75 minutes) | We'll reflect on our journey, review your next steps, and celebrate the incredible work you’ve done.
Session recap emails
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A brief session summary of what emerged in our session
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Questions for further reflection
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Discussed next-steps
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Supporting materials (personalized at-home practices, book suggestions, guided audios, etc.)
messaging support 2x week
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Weekly check-ins for encouragement, reflection, and accountability
YOU’LL ALSO GET:
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Clarification on your style keywords
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Recommendations of what you can let go of from your current wardrobe
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Recommendations of pieces that would complement your wardrobe
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5 outfits styled with 'how do I wear this?!' pieces from your closet
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A Shopping Strategy Guide so you can add to your wardrobe feeling confident, peaceful and in alignment with your values and style priorities
the investment: $1,850
curious if this is for you?
the revelation. is likely a good fit for those who:
the revelation. is likely not a good match for those who:
Are ready to explore their style from a whole-person perspective
Desire to integrate embodiment practices into their style discovery process
Are ready to look at the inner obstacles and beliefs that might be keeping them from fully expressing themselves through your unique style
Are ready prioritize their journey and can commit with time, money and energy
Are only looking for a personal shopper
Want to be told how to dress or what to buy
Are not ready to show up for our sessions and can’t commit to the financial investment
Are not willing to do the inner, self-reflection work that is often needed to develop a style that is true to them and their desires- this can include examining beliefs you hold about your body, your worthiness, fears about being seen as the amazing being you are, etc.
the next step.
ready to work together?
schedule your free clarity call.
This is a pressure-free 30-minute call for us to meet each other.
I’ll answer any questions you might have about what I do, you can confirm that what I’m offering is what you are looking for, and we can see if this feels like a good fit for both of us.
I'M KIRI WHITE, STYLE CONSULTANT & EMBODIMENT COACH.
I grew up in NYC, and feel privileged to have spent much of my childhood roaming through the dark velveted gem rooms at the Natural History Museum, regularly visiting the revolving costume exhibits at the MET, and eating lots of stellar bagels.
I’ve lived in Philly, PA and its suburbs, Denver, CO, Athens, GA, and Carpinteria, CA. I now call Santa Barbara, CA home.
I shop almost exclusively at thrift, vintage, and consignment stores.
If I had to pick a favorite sense it would be smell or my 6th.
I dreamt of being a nurse midwife and life took me on a different path. I worked in research and health care and in previous iterations of my visual identity career, I styled TV hosts and models for campaigns, served as creative director for photo shoots, and worked for fashion retailers big and small.
My passion for wellness and genuine human connection always danced with my love of unabashed self-expression. I have found a beautiful partnership between these three elements in my coaching practice.
I am a candidate for certification with the VITA™ Coaching Method, an immersive 650-hour training in Sex, Love & Relationships, that has equipped me with invaluable tools and practices for empowering my clients in this work.
I don't ascribe to the typical stylist approach of following trends and telling you what to purchase. Instead, I focus on empowering you to excavate your innate wisdom, listen to your own style instincts, and explore your desires amidst the noise of outside influences.
My approach is holistic, trauma-informed, and desire-led. A commitment to intentionality, integrity, pleasure, and the celebration of individual expression guides my work.
I wholeheartedly believe that while I serve as your guide, you are the ONLY expert on you.
I hope I work myself out of a job :)
I have a hunch that if you are here, You're ready to get clear about how to embrace and radiate more of yourself through what you wear. I'm here to support you as you tune into your inner voice and uncover your authentic style.
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